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  • List Three Books that have an Impact on you. Why?

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    List three books that have had an impact on you. Why?
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    As an occassional reader, I get asked about books that have left a lasting impression on me. It’s a tough question because so many books offer unique insights. However, three stand out for their profound impact on my journey toward personal growth and effectiveness: The Power of Habit by Charles Duhigg, The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho, and The 7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens by Sean Covey.


    These books collectively instilled in me a powerful message: always strive to be better. They provided practical frameworks and inspiring narratives that pushed me to examine my actions, find my purpose, and ultimately become more effective in everything I do.


    The Power of Habit by Charles Duhigg: Unlocking the Science of Change
    This book was a game-changer for me.

    Duhigg masterfully breaks down the science behind habit formation, revealing how our routines, both good and bad, shape our lives. What I found most compelling was his explanation of the “habit loop”—cue, routine, and reward. Understanding this loop empowered me to actively identify my working cues and strategically leverage them to cultivate positive habits.


    Duhigg presents compelling case studies, from the success of Procter & Gamble’s Febreze to the civil rights movement, to illustrate how habits drive individual and organizational change. He doesn’t just tell you what to do; he explains why it works, offering actionable insights on how to interrupt bad habits and build new, beneficial ones. For anyone looking to make lasting changes in their life, The Power of Habit is an indispensable guide to understanding and harnessing the incredible power of habits.


    The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho: A Journey of Purpose and Destiny


    The Alchemist is more than just a story; it’s a fable that resonates deeply with anyone seeking meaning and direction. The narrative follows Santiago, a shepherd boy who embarks on a journey to find a hidden treasure, only to discover his true destiny along the way. What I love most about this book is its central message: if you truly desire something, the universe will conspire to help you achieve it.


    This book was a profound reminder that our dreams and aspirations are not just fleeting thoughts, but often a calling towards our “Personal Legend.” It encourages us to embrace adventure, overcome obstacles, and listen to our hearts. The Alchemist inspired me to pursue my goals with conviction, trusting that even setbacks are part of the grand design leading me closer to my purpose.


    The 7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens by Sean Covey: A Teenager’s Blueprint for Success


    I read The 7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens during my formative years, and it has been incredibly influential in shaping my approach to life. Building upon his father Stephen Covey’s timeless principles, Sean Covey brilliantly translates the 7 Habits into relatable language for teenagers, offering a clear roadmap for personal responsibility and growth.
    The seven habits are:

    • Be Proactive: Take responsibility for your own life.
    • Begin With the End in Mind: Define your mission and goals in life.
    • Put First Things First: Prioritize and do the most important things first.
    • Think Win-Win: Have an “everyone can win” attitude.
    • Seek First to Understand, Then to Be Understood: Listen to people sincerely.
    • Synergize: Work together to achieve more.
    • Sharpen the Saw: Renew yourself regularly in all four key areas of your life (body, brain, heart, soul).

    These habits provided a powerful framework for navigating the challenges of adolescence and laid a strong foundation for my personal development. They taught me the importance of setting goals, managing my time, building strong relationships, and continuously improving myself. Even now, years later, these principles continue to guide my decisions and actions.


    These three books, each in its own unique way, have made a lasting impact on me. They didn’t just entertain; they educated, inspired, and motivated me to become a more effective, purposeful, and continually striving individual. If you’re looking for books that offer practical advice and profound wisdom, I highly recommend adding these to your reading list.

  • Do you remember your favorite book from childhood

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    Do you remember your favorite book from childhood?
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    There’s something truly special about the books that capture our imaginations as children. They stick with us, shaping our perspectives and offering comfort long after we’ve turned the last page. For me, one book stands out vividly: The Little Prince by Antoine de Saint-Exupéry.


    This isn’t just a children’s book; it’s a profound journey into the heart of what it means to be human. Even now, the lessons gleaned from its whimsical pages resonate deeply.


    Beyond the Obvious: Cultivating Imagination and New Perspectives


    One of the most powerful messages The Little Prince imparts is the importance of thinking outside the box and embracing imagination. The narrator, a pilot, struggles to be understood by adults who have forgotten how to see with their hearts. They see a drawing of a boa constrictor digesting an elephant as merely a hat, highlighting how quickly we lose our ability to perceive beyond the literal.

    The book constantly challenges us to look at problems from different angles and to value the imaginative perspective that children often possess. It reminds us that sometimes, the most profound truths are not found in logical deductions, but in intuitive leaps.


    The True Meaning of Connection and Responsibility


    The Little Prince also offers timeless wisdom about the nature of relationships and responsibility. The prince’s unique bond with his rose, despite her vanity and his frustrations, leads to one of the book’s most famous quotes: “It is the time you have wasted for your rose that makes your rose so important.” This beautiful sentiment speaks volumes about how our investment – our time, our effort, our love – is what truly imbues people, things, and experiences with value. It’s not about inherent worth, but about the significance we create through our care.


    This idea is further reinforced by another memorable line: “You are responsible, forever, for what you have tamed.” This quote extends beyond just relationships with others; it applies to anything we choose to nurture and dedicate ourselves to. Whether it’s a friendship, a passion project, or even our own personal growth, the time and energy we invest create a lasting bond and an enduring responsibility.


    Seeing with the Heart: The Invisible Essentials


    Perhaps the most poignant lesson from The Little Prince is encapsulated in the quote: “It is only with the heart that one can see rightly; what is essential is invisible to the eye.” In a world often preoccupied with appearances and superficialities, this message is a vital reminder to look beyond the surface. True understanding, genuine connection, and profound meaning are often found not in what we can logically analyze or physically observe, but in what we feel, what we intuit, and what resonates with our innermost being. It teaches us to trust our instincts and to prioritize empathy and emotional intelligence.


    The Little Prince remains a cherished part of my childhood, a constant source of wonder and a gentle guide for navigating the complexities of adulthood. It reminds me to nurture my imagination, to cherish my connections, and to always strive to see with my heart.


    What was your favorite book from childhood, and what lessons did it teach you?