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  • How Important is Spirituality In Your Life?

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    How important is spirituality in your life?
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    The blank page stares back at me, silently asking, “How important is spirituality in your life?” I pause, not because I need to search for an answer, but because I need to find the words to adequately describe something so deeply ingrained, so intrinsically woven into the fabric of my being. The truth is, spirituality isn’t just “important” to me; it is my life. It’s the lens through which I perceive the world, the wellspring from which my actions flow, and the quiet assurance that guides me forward.


    Every Thought a Prayer


    For me, spirituality isn’t confined to a specific time or place, nor is it limited to formal rituals or organized religion. Instead, it’s a living, breathing current that flows through every moment. So much so that I consider every single thought a prayer. Yes, you read that right—every thought is a prayer. It’s a conscious acknowledgment that my inner world has immense power, that the vibrations I send out, whether positive or negative, have an impact.


    This isn’t just a poetic notion; it’s a fundamental principle I live by. When I’m brainstorming a new idea, I’m praying for clarity and inspiration. When I’m feeling grateful, I’m sending out a prayer of thanks. When I’m facing a challenge, I’m praying for strength and guidance. There’s no filter, no censor; it’s a continuous, unedited dialogue with the universe. I believe that these thoughts, these silent petitions, are constantly being transmitted, like radio waves emanating from my mind, reaching out into the vastness of existence.


    Manifesting My Reality


    And why do I send these thoughts, these prayers, out into the universe? Because I truly believe they will come back to me, manifested. This isn’t about wishful thinking or passive waiting. It’s about actively co-creating my reality. If I consistently focus on abundance, joy, and peace, then I expect to see those qualities reflected in my life. Conversely, if I dwell on lack, negativity, or fear, then that’s often what I experience.


    This understanding has profoundly shifted my perspective. It’s made me incredibly mindful of what I allow into my mind, what narratives I repeat, and what emotions I cultivate. It’s not about being naive or ignoring challenges, but rather about choosing how I respond to them and what energy I choose to feed. It’s about recognizing that I have a powerful role in shaping my experiences, and that my internal landscape directly influences my external reality.


    The Anchor of Daily Meditation


    To strengthen this connection, to refine the signal of my internal prayers, I meditate every single day. Meditation isn’t a chore; it’s a sanctuary, a sacred pause in the busyness of life. It’s during these moments of stillness that I can quiet the incessant chatter of the mind and truly listen. It’s where I can align my thoughts with my deepest desires, releasing any limiting beliefs or negative patterns that might be hindering my manifestations.


    My meditation practice varies. Sometimes it’s a guided journey, sometimes it’s simply focusing on my breath, and other times it’s sitting in silent contemplation, just being. Regardless of the form, the purpose remains the same: to cultivate inner peace, to heighten my awareness, and to deepen my connection to the universal source. It’s an act of self-care, a spiritual workout that strengthens my ability to consciously create and receive.


    In essence, spirituality isn’t a separate compartment in my life; it is my life. It’s the constant flow of thought-prayers, the unwavering belief in manifestation, and the grounding practice of daily meditation. It’s a journey of self-discovery and co-creation, and one that I wouldn’t trade for anything.

  • How Do You Waste The Most Time Every Day?

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    How do you waste the most time every day?
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    Ever wonder where your day goes? For me, it’s often swallowed whole by something invisible, yet incredibly consuming: overthinking. Specifically, I’m trapped in a relentless cycle of “what ifs” about my life.


    It’s a constant mental loop. What if I had chosen that other career path? What if I lived in a different city, or pursued that completely wild dream? My mind latches onto these hypothetical scenarios and won’t let go. I dissect every possible alternative, imagining different outcomes, different me’s. It’s an exhausting and utterly futile pursuit.


    The Root of My Restlessness


    I think this obsession with “what ifs” comes from a deeper place: a nagging feeling that I’m not entirely content with my current life. If I were truly happy and fulfilled, perhaps my mind wouldn’t wander so much, constantly questioning the path I’m on. Because I’m always questioning the life I’m living, my waking hours often dissolve into this endless pondering, trying to “solve” things that can’t be solved by just thinking about them.


    Breaking Free From My Overthinking Trap


    So, how do I start to reclaim my time from these mental shackles?

    • Noticing the Loop: The first step is simply to become aware when I’m doing it. “Ah, there I go again, down the ‘what if’ rabbit hole.” Just acknowledging it, without judgment, is key.
    • Mindfulness Moments: I’m trying to pull myself back to the present. Focusing on my breath, the sounds around me, or whatever I’m actually doing in that moment, even for a few minutes, helps to interrupt the pattern.
    • Unpacking the Emotion: Instead of getting lost in the “what ifs,” I’m learning to ask myself: What emotion is really driving this? Is it fear, regret, or just general dissatisfaction? Understanding the underlying feeling might help me address the real issue.
    • Taking Small Actions: If my overthinking is about a decision, I try to break it down. Instead of endlessly pondering a massive career change, maybe I can research a different field for an hour, or connect with someone who’s doing something I find interesting. Small actions feel less overwhelming than giant hypotheticals.
    • Embracing Imperfection: I’m slowly realizing there’s no such thing as a perfect choice or a perfect life. Accepting that every path has its ups and downs helps lessen the pressure to find some unattainable ideal.
    • Focusing on What I Can Control: I can’t control every external factor or predict every outcome. So, I’m trying to redirect my energy towards what I actually can influence right now.
    • Finding Present Contentment: While it’s okay to want more or different things, I’m trying to consciously practice gratitude for what I do have in my life right now. Finding small moments of joy and appreciation can really lessen the pull of those hypothetical futures.
      Overthinking about “what ifs” is definitely how I waste most of my time, but it doesn’t have to be my constant reality. By understanding its grip on me and implementing these strategies, I’m hoping to start reclaiming my waking hours and live more fully in the present.
      What’s one small step I can take today to move from “what if” to “what is”?

  • Which Food, When You Eat It, Instantly Transports You To Childhood?

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    Which food, when you eat it, instantly transports you to childhood?
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    It’s amazing how a simple bite of food can unlock a flood of memories, instantly whisking you away to a different time and place. For me, two dishes hold that magical power, acting as delicious portals to my childhood: chicken burgers and congee (rice porridge).


    Chicken Burgers: A Taste of Adventure


    The moment I bite into a chicken burger, I’m not just eating a meal; I’m reliving cherished moments. My mind immediately conjures images of KFC and McDonald’s, the iconic fast-food joints that were a staple of my childhood. But it’s more than just the taste of the burger itself. It’s the excitement of family road trips in the Philippines, the wind in my hair, the anticipation of a long journey, and the inevitable stop for a satisfying chicken burger meal. That first crispy bite, the savory patty, the soft bun – it’s an instant surge back to memory lane, a vivid recall of laughter, shared stories, and the simple joy of being with my family.


    Congee: Comfort and Care in Every Spoonful


    Then there’s congee, or rice porridge. This humble dish, so unassuming in its appearance, holds an equally powerful connection to my past. For me, congee is the taste of comfort and warmth. It instantly transports me to cozy afternoons at home on a rainy day, the rhythmic patter of rain against the windowpane, and the soothing warmth of a bowl of congee in my hands. It also brings back memories of being lovingly cared for by my parents whenever I was sick. The gentle texture, the subtle flavors – each spoonful is a reminder of their nurturing presence and the feeling of being safe and loved.


    These aren’t just foods; they’re anchors to my past, embodying the essence of family, adventure, comfort, and care. They’re a delicious reminder of where I came from, and I always look forward to savoring them, knowing they’ll always bring a little piece of my childhood back to me.


    What foods instantly transport you back to your childhood? I’d love to hear about your culinary memory lane!

  • What Countries Do You Want to Visit?

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    What countries do you want to visit?
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    If I could pack my bags and hop on a plane tomorrow, my itinerary would be bursting with destinations that offer profound and unique experiences. My wishlist is a blend of ancient wonders, spiritual havens, and breathtaking natural beauty. So, let’s take a peek at where my wanderlust is currently leading me!

    1. Egypt: Stepping Back in Time to Meet the Pharaohs
      At the very top of my list is Egypt. The sheer magnitude of history concentrated in this land is awe-inspiring. Just imagining myself standing before the Great Pyramids of Giza sends shivers down my spine. I want to feel their ancient presence and try to grasp the incredible feat of engineering and organization it took to build them.
      More than just seeing the stones, I dream of somehow traveling back in time, even if just in my imagination, to meet the pharaohs. What would it have been like to walk through their courts, witness their rituals, and hear their stories firsthand? Exploring the intricately decorated temples of Luxor and Karnak, deciphering the hieroglyphs, and venturing into the mysterious Valley of the Kings would be an unparalleled opportunity to connect with a civilization that has captivated me since childhood.
    2. Nepal: Seeking Serenity and Learning from the Source
      From the sands of Egypt, my heart then yearns for the tranquil heights of Nepal. This journey would be a pilgrimage for my soul, a chance to practice meditation and learn directly from Buddhist monks. The image of serene monasteries nestled high in the Himalayas, the sound of chanting filling the crisp mountain air, and the profound wisdom emanating from those who have dedicated their lives to spiritual practice is incredibly appealing.
      I long to immerse myself in the principles of mindfulness and compassion, hoping to gain a deeper understanding of myself and the world around me. Witnessing the colorful prayer flags dancing in the wind and observing the daily rituals of devotion would be a truly transformative experience, offering a sense of inner peace that I crave.
    3. Costa Rica: Immersing Myself in the Wild Beauty of Nature
      Next on my dream itinerary is the vibrant and biodiverse paradise of Costa Rica. My visit here would be all about experiencing the raw beauty of nature and embarking on thrilling wildlife adventures.
      I picture myself ziplining through lush cloud forests, surrounded by an orchestra of exotic sounds and vibrant green foliage. I dream of spotting sloths lazily moving through the trees, marveling at the colorful plumage of toucans, and watching playful monkeys swinging through the canopy. Exploring majestic volcanoes, rafting down pristine rivers, and discovering hidden waterfalls would be an exhilarating celebration of our planet’s incredible ecosystems. Costa Rica’s dedication to conservation makes it an even more attractive destination, aligning with my own appreciation for the natural world.
    4. Europe: A Tapestry of Culture and History
      Finally, my wanderlust calls me to the diverse continent of Europe. While it’s a vast area, the sheer variety of cultures, histories, and landscapes makes it an essential part of my travel aspirations.
      I imagine wandering along the romantic canals of Venice, feeling the weight of history in the ancient streets of Rome, losing myself in the artistic masterpieces of Paris, and soaking in the vibrant atmosphere of London. I want to stroll through cobblestone alleys, gaze at breathtaking architecture, and immerse myself in the unique traditions and flavors of each country. Whether it’s exploring ancient ruins in Greece, marveling at the fjords of Norway, enjoying the lively markets of Spain, or discovering fairytale castles in Germany, Europe offers an endless array of experiences, each promising to enrich my understanding of the world and its people.

    5. While these are just a few of the destinations on my ever-growing list, they represent a deep desire to connect with history, seek spiritual growth, and appreciate the incredible beauty of our planet. Each of these countries offers a unique set of attractions and experiences that I believe would be truly transformative, and I can’t wait for the day when I can turn these dreams into reality.

  • What’s Your Favorite Thing About Yourself?

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    We all have things we appreciate about ourselves, whether it’s a quirky sense of humor, a knack for solving puzzles, or a talent for making people feel at ease. But if you were to ask me to pick my absolute favorite thing about myself, it wouldn’t be about a skill or a personality trait in the traditional sense. It’s something far more fundamental, something that has shaped every aspect of my life: my resilience and antifragility.


    You might be thinking, “Resilience, sure, that makes sense. But antifragility?” Let me explain. Resilience is about bouncing back to your original state after a setback. It’s like a rubber band stretching and then returning to its shape. Antifragility, on the other hand, takes it a step further. It means not only do you recover, but you actually become stronger and better as a result of the challenge. Think of it like a muscle that tears during a workout, and then rebuilds itself even more robustly.


    Life, as we all know, is full of twists, turns, and unexpected tumbles. I’ve faced my share of obstacles – professional setbacks, personal disappointments, moments that have truly tested my resolve. In those moments, it would be easy to crumble, to give up, to let the weight of the situation pull me under. But that’s where my favorite trait kicks in.


    When I fall, and believe me, I’ve had my share of falls, my immediate instinct isn’t to wallow or despair. It’s to figure out how to get back up. More than that, it’s about figuring out how to get back up not just to where I was, but to a better place. Each setback becomes a lesson, each stumble an opportunity for growth. I delve into what went wrong, what I could have done differently, and what new strategies I can employ moving forward.


    This isn’t to say it’s easy. Fighting back, especially when you’re feeling bruised and defeated, requires immense effort and courage. But there’s a fire within me that refuses to be extinguished. It’s the conviction that I am capable of overcoming whatever life throws my way, and that with every challenge I conquer, I become more formidable. I fight back, and I fight hard, not just for the sake of winning, but for the invaluable experience and wisdom gained in the struggle.


    This internal drive has been my compass, guiding me through tough times and propelling me forward even when the path ahead seems daunting. It’s what allows me to embrace uncertainty, knowing that whatever comes, I have the capacity to adapt, learn, and ultimately thrive.


    So, while there are many things I like about myself, my resilience and antifragility stand out. They are the bedrock of my strength, the engine of my progress, and the reason I look forward to whatever challenges lie ahead, knowing they will only make me stronger.


    What’s your favorite thing about yourself, and how does it help you navigate life’s journey?

  • How Do You Want To Retire?

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    How do you want to retire?
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    Like many, the idea of retirement conjures up images of sun-drenched beaches and endless leisure. For me, that dream is painted in the vibrant hues of a tropical paradise, somewhere like Hawaii or Southern California. But it’s not just about the location; it’s about a lifestyle of comfort, freedom, and the ability to truly savor every moment as I step into my golden years.


    A Home Paid in Full: The Foundation of Peace of Mind


    First and foremost, my retirement vision includes a home – a beautiful, comfortable house – that is entirely paid off. Imagine the sheer liberation of waking up each day without a mortgage payment looming over your head. This isn’t just about financial security; it’s about profound peace of mind. It means my primary living expense is eliminated, freeing up significant funds for other pursuits and allowing me to truly relax and enjoy my surroundings. This fully-owned home will be my sanctuary, a place where I can entertain loved ones, cultivate a garden, or simply enjoy quiet mornings with a cup of coffee.


    Unlocking My Retirement Benefits: A Steady Stream of Support


    Of course, a comfortable retirement also hinges on a steady income. My goal is to maximize my retirement benefits, whether they come from Social Security, a pension, or personal investments. Having these benefits firmly in place will provide a reliable financial foundation, covering daily expenses and ensuring I can maintain my desired quality of life without worry. This security will allow me to embrace spontaneous opportunities and pursue new hobbies without constantly checking my bank balance.


    Around the World, Every Year: Adventures Await!


    One of the most exciting aspects of my retirement dream is the ability to travel the world. I envision taking at least one significant international vacation every year. Imagine exploring ancient ruins in Rome, savoring authentic street food in Thailand, or marveling at the Northern Lights in Iceland. These aren’t just trips; they are opportunities to learn, grow, and create unforgettable memories. Travel broadens the mind, keeps the spirit young, and allows for continued discovery, even in retirement. It’s a chance to see the wonders of our planet and connect with different cultures, truly making the most of my newfound free time.


    Comfort and Contentment: The Ultimate Goal


    Ultimately, my retirement goal is to live comfortably. This means not just financial stability, but also the freedom to pursue my passions, spend quality time with loved ones, and maintain a healthy and active lifestyle. It means having the resources to enjoy good food, pursue hobbies like golfing or paddleboarding, and simply wake up each day feeling grateful and unburdened.


    To “savor life as I get old” is more than just a phrase; it’s the guiding principle of my retirement dream. It means appreciating the small moments – a beautiful sunset, a delicious meal, a laugh with friends – as much as the grand adventures. It’s about slowing down, being present, and truly enjoying the fruits of a lifetime of hard work.


    While the path to this dream retirement requires careful planning, disciplined saving, and smart financial decisions, the vision itself serves as a powerful motivator. Knowing that a future filled with sunshine, travel, and complete peace of mind awaits makes every effort today worthwhile. Here’s to a comfortable retirement, where every day is an opportunity to savor life to the fullest!

  • Describe One of Your Favorite Moments

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    My Guiding Star: A Mother’s Wisdom.


    Among the many cherished memories I hold, one stands out with particular warmth and significance: the quiet, heartfelt moments when my mother shares her wisdom and advice. These aren’t grand pronouncements, but rather gentle nudges and profound insights that have shaped who I am and how I navigate the world.


    There’s a recurring theme in her guidance, a steady current that runs through all her words: bravery. My mother has always encouraged me to face challenges head-on, to step outside my comfort zone, and to not be afraid of the unknown. It’s a lesson that has empowered me to take risks, pursue opportunities, and learn from every experience, good or bad.


    Another cornerstone of her advice is the importance of deliberation. “Think about a decision ten times before you make it,” she’ll often say. This isn’t about hesitation or paralysis by analysis, but rather about thoughtful consideration, weighing the pros and cons, and understanding the potential ripple effects of my choices. It’s a practice that has saved me from hasty mistakes and fostered a more mindful approach to life.


    Perhaps most impactful is her emphasis on self-reliance. My mother has always instilled in me the value of independence – the ability to stand on my own two feet, to solve my own problems, and to be accountable for my own journey. This doesn’t mean isolating myself, but rather building the strength and resilience to be my own strongest advocate.


    And finally, through all of life’s ups and downs, she reminds me that life is a beautiful thing to have. This simple yet profound statement is a constant source of perspective. It encourages me to appreciate the small joys, to find beauty in unexpected places, and to approach each day with gratitude and optimism.


    These aren’t just pieces of advice; they’re the foundational principles of my life, whispered from a heart that wants nothing but the best for me. Each time she shares these thoughts, it’s a favorite moment, a reminder of her unwavering love and the incredible gift of her wisdom. She is, and always will be, my guiding star.


    What’s a piece of advice that has profoundly impacted your life?

  • Who Do You Spend the Most Time With

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    It’s funny how life shifts and priorities reconfigure. If you were to ask me “Who do you spend the most time with?” right now, my answer would be immediate and heartfelt: my Mama.


    Life has me anchored at home these days, and with my mother having retired in 2021, our shared hours have truly blossomed. Our days are a comfortable rhythm of domestic partnership. We cook together, turning meal preparation into a collaborative and often fragrant activity. We tackle house chores side-by-side, making cleaning feel less like a task and more like a shared effort to maintain our sanctuary. There’s a deep contentment in this shared time at home, a feeling of togetherness that truly nourishes my soul.


    Beyond the daily routines, this increased time together has allowed me to be her companion for her doctor’s and clinic appointments. It’s a small but significant way I can support her, especially since English is our second language and she often needs a translator. Being there, helping her navigate these situations, feels like a natural extension of our bond.


    As my Mama gracefully ages, I’ve noticed a beautiful new dimension to our relationship. She’s begun to share her life learnings with me, imparting wisdom gleaned from decades of experience. These aren’t just stories; they’re valuable lessons, insights into life that she’s passing down. I’m incredibly grateful to be the recipient of this legacy, to hear her reflections and absorb her perspective as she moves through this phase of her life.


    So, who do I spend the most time with? It’s always been, and continues to be, my Mama. Even when I was a child, she was my primary companion, my confidante, my world. And today, as adults sharing our home and our lives, that bond remains the strongest and most cherished connection I have.

  • If You Had to Change Your Name, What Would Your New Name be?

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    If you had to change your name, what would your new name be?
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    We all have a name given to us at birth, often chosen with care and meaning by our parents. It’s a fundamental part of our identity. But have you ever stopped to think, if you could officially change your name, what would it be?
    For me, the answer is clear: Jude.


    I was fortunate enough to grow up Catholic, and a beautiful tradition within the faith is the Sacrament of Confirmation. During this sacrament, you have the opportunity to choose a saint’s name to add to your own, a spiritual augmentation that holds deep personal significance. I chose Jude after Saint Jude Thaddeus, the patron saint of hopeless causes.


    This name isn’t just a religious nod for me; it’s a constant, powerful reminder that even when things seem their most challenging or utterly bleak, there’s always a glimmer of hope. It grounds me, encouraging perseverance and faith that difficulties can and will improve. In a world that often presents its share of “hopeless causes,” my chosen name serves as an anchor.


    Beyond its spiritual resonance, “Jude” also has a wonderful presence in popular culture. Who can forget The Beatles’ iconic and uplifting song, “Hey Jude”? That song alone brings a smile to my face and reinforces the positive, encouraging feelings associated with the name.


    While my given name, bestowed upon me by my parents, is one I cherish and find beautiful in its own right, the opportunity to officially embrace “Jude” as my primary name would be a powerful affirmation of my beliefs and a daily dose of optimism. For now, I’ll happily continue to carry it as a meaningful augmentation, a reminder that even in the face of the impossible, hope always prevails.


    What about you? If you had the chance to change your name, what would you choose and why? Share your thoughts in the comments below!

  • If Human had Taglines What Would Yours Be?

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    If humans had taglines, what would yours be?
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    It’s a fun thought experiment, isn’t it? If each of us walked around with a personal tagline, a concise phrase summarizing our approach to life, what would it be? It’s like distilling your entire being into a handful of words.


    My Personal Tagline: “Just Do It.”


    For me, the answer is surprisingly simple, and I’m going to borrow a classic: “Just Do It.” Yes, Nike’s iconic slogan perfectly encapsulates the mindset I strive for, and honestly, the one I often need.


    Why “Just Do It.” Resonates with Me
    Life, for many of us, is a series of tasks, challenges, and aspirations that often require one fundamental thing: action. Whether it’s a looming deadline, a difficult conversation I’ve been avoiding, a new skill I want to learn, or even just getting out of bed on a Monday morning, most of my “problems” or goals demand that I tend to them and, crucially, act on them.


    Procrastination is a powerful force, a siren song that lulls us into inaction. It’s easy to get caught up in overthinking, planning every minute detail, or simply feeling overwhelmed. This is where “Just Do It.” becomes my internal mantra. It’s a forceful, yet encouraging, reminder that analysis paralysis won’t get me anywhere. The only way to move forward is to start.


    It’s a call to get up and try. It doesn’t promise success, nor does it imply that the task will be easy. Instead, it emphasizes the importance of the initial step, the commitment to engage, and the resilience to keep going. For me, it’s about breaking free from inertia and embracing the power of consistent effort. It’s a recognition that even small actions, when taken consistently, can lead to significant progress.


    So, if you ever see me staring off into space, seemingly contemplating the universe, you can bet that somewhere in my mind, “Just Do It.” is echoing, urging me to tackle whatever challenge lies ahead.


    What about you? If you had a personal tagline, what would it be and why?